Chapter 100: Brotherly Love, and Love for Enemies

In an age dominated by ambition, egotism, and the thirst for renown, Christianity introduced a revolutionary ethic: love—unfeigned, self-sacrificial, and divine. This love did not merely bind believers in holy fellowship; it reached across barriers of race, class, and enmity to embrace even those who reviled and persecuted. What the ancient world admired as heroic magnanimity, the Church lived as a daily vocation rooted in the love of God.

The Ethic of Paganism: Glory, Not Grace

It has long been acknowledged that the moral compass of classical antiquity was steered not by altruism, but by self-interest. While many of its most celebrated figures transcended crude desires for wealth and pleasure, they remained enthralled by a loftier form of egotism—ambition and the relentless pursuit of fame. The glory of Miltiades and Themistocles at Marathon, the conquests of Alexander, the immortal verses of Pindar, the tragedies of Sophocles, the speeches of Demosthenes, the sculptures of Phidias—all were animated by the desire to be remembered. Fame was the currency of greatness, upheld in the Olympian games, and praised by Cicero as the supreme aspiration of noble souls.

Even patriotism, that cherished virtue of Greco-Roman antiquity, when closely examined, often reveals itself as an expanded form of self-love. Amidst the celebrated list of pagan virtues, two remain conspicuously absent: humility and charity. The very Greek word for humility—ταπεινοφροσύνη—was disparaged as indicating a cringing and servile spirit. As for love, the noblest sentiment recognized was friendship, which Cicero exalted as second only to wisdom. Yet even this virtue was transactional in nature, grounded in mutual benefit and social parity. Love for the stranger, the barbarian, or the enemy was unthinkable.

The lex talionis—repaying evil for evil—was not merely a social norm, but a pillar of justice in the classical world. Aeschylus himself affirmed this ethic: “We must offend those who offend us.” To forgo vengeance was to admit weakness; forgiveness, when practiced, was a calculated show of superiority, not an act of grace. Thus, the very idea of returning good for evil—so central to the teachings of Christ—was utterly foreign to the moral imagination of antiquity.

Philosophical Glimmers and Their Limits

Yet even in the shadowlands of paganism, flickers of virtue glowed. For Christianity, though divinely revealed, does not contravene nature—it elevates it. Thus, the liberality and magnanimity seen in the better schools of ancient ethics may be seen as seeds that would flower fully only under Christian sunlight.

Some philosophers advanced beyond the standard ethic of retribution. Aristotle and his Peripatetic followers advised moderation in anger, even if they did not denounce it outright. The Stoics went further, advocating apatheia—the extinction of all passionate affections. Cicero praised clemency and the ability to forgive as noble traits in a statesman and lauded Caesar for his amnesia toward personal injuries. Seneca, Epictetus, Plutarch, and Marcus Aurelius—all in varying degrees touched by the spiritual atmosphere surrounding early Christianity—rebuked anger, advocated compassion, and encouraged kindness even toward enemies and slaves.

But these rare sentiments had no solid foundation. First, they were exceptional, not normative; second, they were confined to the lofty minds of philosophers, not taught to the masses; third, they stemmed not from divine love, but from a refined egotism—an aristocratic disdain for vengeance as unworthy of a great soul. They refrained from retaliation but seldom promoted active goodwill. And most decisively, they lacked any theological anchor. Nowhere did these noble aspirations derive from the love of a personal God who had first loved humanity.

The Absence of Charity in Pagan Society

Despite philosophical refinements, the practical life of the Roman world remained cold and self-serving. Plutarch lamented that even within families, affection had withered, and that genuine brotherly love belonged only to the mythical heroism of antiquity. The pre-Christian world was, in truth, a world without charity. Even the Emperor Julian—ironically dubbed “the Apostate”—recognized this lack when he attempted to graft Christian-like benevolence onto resurgent paganism. But his efforts failed, for the essential foundation was missing: the belief in the infinite worth of every human soul.

The Church and the Revelation of Divine Love

Into this moral wasteland, Christianity poured a river of divine compassion. Not as a mere concept, but as a lived reality, love became the animating spirit of the Church. It was first manifest as brotherly love—an unbreakable bond among believers, rooted in their shared life in Christ. Tertullian, in his Apologeticus, notes how this love astonished pagan onlookers: “See how they love one another!” The pagans, accustomed to hatred and strife, could not fathom such devotion. Christian terms like “brother” and “sister” were not sentimental flourishes; they reflected a profound spiritual kinship. Ignatius even referred to Christians as “Christ-bearers” and “God-bearers.”

This love was not confined to the heart. It expressed itself in sacramental signs and daily acts: the fraternal kiss at baptism and the Eucharist, shared possessions, and mutual hospitality. A Christian traveler—armed with nothing but a bishop’s letter—could find welcome and shelter in distant lands, embraced not as a stranger, but as kin. The early Church believed that “in thy brother thou hast seen the Lord Himself.”

Charity and Self-Sacrifice

The love among believers found its most radiant expression in charitable service. The early Christians, largely drawn from the poor and oppressed, gave generously even amid persecution and dispossession. Each congregation functioned as a benevolent society. During the Lord’s Day services, offerings were regularly collected for the widowed, the orphaned, the imprisoned, and the infirm. Communion and love-feasts became occasions of sacrificial giving. Deaconesses and Christian housewives considered it their sacred calling to serve Christ in His suffering members—feeding, clothing, and comforting His disciples in distress.

This quiet labor did not go unnoticed. Even the satirist Lucian grudgingly admitted, “It is incredible to see the ardor with which the people of that religion help each other.” The early Church in Rome, as the martyr deacon Laurentius famously demonstrated, counted among its treasures not silver or gold, but the multitudes of blind, lame, and suffering whom it nourished.

Love Without Borders

Christian love was not provincial. It transcended geography, race, and tribe. When catastrophe struck a distant community, bishops organized special fasts and collections to aid those in distress. Cyprian of Carthage once raised a massive sum to ransom Numidian Christians captured by barbarians, viewing the act not as charity but as participation in the redemptive mission of Christ Himself.

Those who balked at giving for the sake of their own children were rebuked by Cyprian for chaining their progeny to temporal wealth rather than pointing them to their true inheritance in heaven.

Love for Enemies: The Pinnacle of Christian Ethics

Brotherly love found its highest expression in love for enemies. In moments of crisis, this love did not flinch. During the plague in Carthage under Emperor Gallus, while pagans fled from their sick and cast corpses into the streets, the Christians—urged on by Cyprian—tended to the dead and dying with tireless devotion. The wealthy gave of their resources, the poor gave their labor, and the city was preserved from utter ruin.

A similar spirit pervaded Alexandria during the plague in Gallienus’s reign. These acts were not isolated heroics but manifestations of a consistent ethic of love, even toward those who cursed and persecuted the Church. As Tertullian observed, while all men love their friends, only Christians love their enemies. “You forget,” he told the pagans, “that we pray for you, do good to you, and spread more charity in your streets than your temples receive in offerings.”

The Institutional Legacy of Christian Love

This profound ethic eventually gave rise to institutional forms. Once Christianity gained legal recognition, it established hospitals, orphanages, homes for the elderly, and hospices for travelers. The earliest clear instance of this comes from Julian the Apostate himself, who, in a desperate attempt to outdo the Christians, instructed pagan priests to build Xenodochia—guesthouses for the needy. But he admitted, with shame, that “the Galilaeans nourish not only their own, but even our poor.”

A generation later, St. Basil founded the famed hospital at Caesarea, the Basilias, followed by similar institutions in Antioch, Constantinople (which boasted thirty-five), and throughout the West in Rome, Sicily, Gaul, and Sardinia. These were not merely centers of medical care—they were monuments to a love that saw Christ in every wounded face and needy soul.

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